(I'm lucky to have been on the receiving end of running writing from the
assembled authors who will contribute to this new column, "Beyond the
Chip." Most, if not all, are familiar names in Michigan running through
their accomplishments and service to the sport. Drawing from their deep
pool of experiences, I expect you'll enjoy each writer's unique voice.
Taking turns contributing will be Laurel Park, Ann Forshee-Crane, Paul
Aufdemberge, Laura Murphy, Ian Forsyth and Robin Sarris-Hallop.
- Scott Hubbard)Steve Yzerman's retirement from the Detroit Red Wings after 22 years,
the last 20 of them as captain, provoked an outpouring of tributes,
reminiscences and accolades.
Yet among all the testimonials to his talents, toughness, heart and
durability, there was one underlying constant: Through his conduct and
attitude, on and off the ice, Yzerman was a credit to his team, to his
organization and to the city of Detroit.
This sentiment was expressed by teammates, competitors, legends of
the game, announcers and pretty much anyone involved in the NHL for
the past 50 years. To put it simply, the man was a class act.
To me, there's no higher compliment. The respect one earns through
that reputation far exceeds anything gained from records or
performances. It colors other achievements too - great accomplishments
shine brighter in the warm glow of respect. While I admire some athletes
based on talent alone, I respect those who combine talent with class.
The reputation extends by association to the athlete's sport and
organization. Like it or not, when you're a member of a team, an
organization or even linked with a certain sport, your behavior reflects
upon those entities. And it's not just the superstars or high-profile
professionals. I doubt that all college lacrosse players are sex-crazed
louts, but thanks to the actions of a few players at Duke the sport was
subject to scathing national publicity earlier this year.
Having worn a Michigan uniform, I'm personally offended when I see
someone whose behavior is an embarrassment to the "block M."
(Apparently U-M administrators share my feelings, given former football
coach Gary Moeller's fate following his unfortunate drunken encounter
with police a few years ago).
Similarly, I cringe on the rare occasions when I see runners act in a
manner that gives us all a bad name. People tend to form generalized
opinions based on just a few first-hand experiences, so while you might
talk yourself blue in the face trying to convince your neighbor that not all
runners are reckless maniacs, all she is going to remember is the
supplex-clad idiot who dashed in front of her car on Main Street, then
gave her the "middle-finger salute."
I'm guilty of it, too. Even though my husband and his friends are
cautious, rule-abiding cyclists, I still grouse about the idiots on commuter
bikes who blast through "Stop" signs or scare the wits out of elderly
pedestrians on the sidewalk.
And it only takes one negative incident to cement an opinion. Many
years ago I participated in a large, well-known road race. While waiting
in the porta-john line, I saw a woman open the door of an occupied unit,
inadvertently exposing the hapless (and short-less) occupant.
The door was not locked and I assume it was an honest mistake. Upon
emerging, however, the occupant - a famous runner - proceeded to give
the woman a thorough tongue-lashing. This runner has received a lot of
publicity over the years for charity work, and I suspect is generally a
pretty decent human being, but my opinion will be forever colored by
that brief incident.
I try to keep this in mind when I'm at races, or even just out on my daily
run. Like it or not, I realize that when I'm out on the streets, to the non-
running citizens I encounter along the way, I represent all of my running
brethren. So I try to be polite and considerate; obeying traffic lights,
getting out of the way of motorists, and saying "hi" to the people I see.
At races, I think of myself as a guest in the community and try to act in a
manner that will ensure a return invitation. Many races exist through the
benevolence of the communities in which they are held, and it doesn't
take more than a couple of negative experiences to test that
relationship.
Many years ago, residents living near Dexter High School complained
loudly (and legitimately) about Dexter-Ann Arbor Half-Marathon
participants "answering the call of nature" in lawns and shrubs.
Admittedly, when you gotta go, you gotta go, but the race committee
made it a point to add porta-johns and to emphasize the importance of
using them.
When I am doing my post-race cooldown, I try to stay out of everyone's
way and thank volunteers on the course, who are often people from the
community. I also try to be gracious to fellow runners, which usually isn't
hard because one of the best aspects of racing is seeing old friends and
making new ones. Obviously we're there to compete, and frankly yes, I
do want to beat you, my dear, but once the race is over, I also want to be
able to chat with you and maybe jog a leisurely cool-down together -
regardless of the outcome.
Luckily, runners as a group tend to be intelligent people who think
before they act and try to set a good example for others. Of course, we're
all human and have a bad day now and then. I suspect we have all said
or done things we regret - I certainly have a few memories that make me
cringe.
But I look to the people whom I admire as role models and do my best
to emulate their behavior. I also take note of behavior that is
embarrassing, and try to learn from that example.
Victories and PRs fade, but class and respect endure. MR